How to Recognize the Signs of a Suicidal Friend?

Claire Emma  2019-09-13 01:05:33

Having a friend who you believe to be considering suicide is not to be coped with lightly. Being suicidal is a temporary state that proves to be an response to severe depression, and the act of taking one's own life is preventable when the correct measures are taken. As a friend, you can potentially save a life by paying attention to warning signs of suicide (in addition to the ones you already know about).

  1. 1Spot patterns of suicidal thought. The most important part of prevention is recognition of warning signs. Suicidal thoughts usually include two or more of the following patterns: First, frequent dwelling on a thought obsessively; Second, believing that there is no hope, and no way to end the pain other than committing suicide. Third, viewing life as meaningless, or out of control; Fourth, feeling as though one's brain is in a fog that makes concentration difficult.
    • 2Recognize suicidal emotions. Many emotional changes accompany suicidal thought, This changes are common warning signs: First, extreme mood swings; Second, feelings of loneliness and isolation, even in the presence of others; Third, Feelings of worthlessness, shame, guilt, self-hatred, and the sense that no one cares; Fourth, Becoming sad, withdrawn, tired, apathetic, anxious, irritable, or prone to angry outbursts.
      • 3Watch for suggestive comments. Be alert to statements that echo the patterns of thoughts and feelings that accompany suicidality. For example: "Life isn’t worth living.", "You (or another friend or family member) would be better off without me.", "Don’t worry, I won’t be around to deal with that.", "You’ll be sorry when I’m gone.", "I won’t be in your way much longer.", "I just can’t deal with everything — what's the point?", "I won’t be a burden much longer.", "There’s nothing I can do to change anything.", "I’d be better off dead.", "I feel like there is no way out.", "I never should have been born".
        • 4Be wary of sudden improvement in mood. Many people who go through with suicide do so when they appear to be feeling significantly better than they have been. You may be seeing the peaceful resoluteness of making the decision to end their life, and should take preventative steps immediately.
          • 5Notice unusual behavior. You can observe many behavioral changes in suicidal individuals. If you see at least a few of the following, you may have cause for concern: First, declining performance in school, work, or other activities (or occasionally the opposite, filling up time with extra duties and responsibilities); Second, social isolation; Third, little or no interest in sex, friends, or previously enjoyable activities; Fourth, carelessness about personal welfare and deteriorating physical appearance; Fifth, alterations in either direction in sleeping or eating habits. Look for extremes like self-starvation, poor dietary management, or inattention to medical orders (especially in the elderly); Sixth, drastic changes to established routines; Seventh, lethargy and withdrawal.
            • 6Recognize signs of suicide planning. Having a plan already in place can mean that a successful attempt could happen soon. Watch for all of the following actions: First, tying up loose ends (i.e. saying goodbye to loved ones, giving away valuable belongings, arranging finances); Second, making reckless or passive decisions about important things, Third, gathering the means to commit suicide, like pill bottles, medications, and weapons.